I met about 30 women on eharmony.com. I'm a male and I think there are must be
about 30 men for every woman at least on this site. Women on this site can
be super picky. I've sent out 25 to 30 messages and am lucky if I get 2 or 3
replies.
I'm a nice looking tall and thin guy. I'm not looking for perfection, but
the women are. Warning: Stay away from a women who's headline is coffee tea
or me. She has herself listed on the Hudson Streetsboro Ohio border. She
will take, take, and take. Then for no reason, break your heart and never
want to have anything to do with you. She's 51 with shoulder length dark
brown hair. She turned out to be the worst mistake of my life. I literally
busted my tail for this woman. She tossed me aside like yesterday's garbage.
Guys, I mean it, stay away.
If you don't, you will be sorry. She will take everything she can get, give
nothing in return and then without warning, never want to see, talk or do
anything with you. She is brutal.
10/03/2007
Saw doctom7 on eharmony.com. Age 58 from Garden City. This guy is a sosapath
lier and money scamer of women. He belongs in a pysco institution where he
works.
Ladies run as fast as you can from this sicko.
06/30/2007
I have used eharmony.com extensively and find it to be an excellent dating
tool with convenient features. Yahoo Personals, the only other online dating
site I have tried, pales by comparison--far fewer people have joined it, and
it lacks the features that eharmony has. The reviews below contain a lot of
gripes about
online
dating generally, rather than things specific to eharmony.
Unless someone has tried a couple of online dating sites, a review may not
help you decide which service to try, though it can help you decide whether
to try online dating at all. eharmony is the largest and most popular of all
the services.
I have met with over 40 nice women through eharmony and one resulted in a
long-term relationship. It certainly beats a bar scene, and I've always
enjoyed the meetings, except for one that in retrospect I shouldn't have
agreed to. The profiles provide a lot of useful info to help you decide if
you want to contact someone or respond to a contact. Before meeting, it's
typical to exchange a number of e-mails asking questions and trading info
(through their double-blind system, so you never reveal your true identity
or e-mail address, unless you choose to do so), then a phone call (if one of
you is willing to provide the other with a phone number), so you get much
more info than is available in the person's profile before deciding whether
to meet. The phone calls are very revealing about what kind of person you're
talking to. Some people look really good on paper, but not so good in a live
phone conversation. I haven't run across any profiles that I suspected were
faked by eharmony.
One annoyance you should expect is that many people you contact will not
be courteous enough to respond, even with a "canned" "Thanks but no thanks"
message. Whatever happened to courtesy? Replaced by "I don't want to take
the time"? If you join, please be courteous enough to at least take ten
seconds and reply to contacts with a conveniently provided "canned"
rejection message.
I'm surprised that some reviewers gripe about having to pay for/subscribe
to eharmony if you want to e-mail someone (though not to "wink" at them, which
doesn't entail a written message, just a canned phrase). The adage is
true--you get what you pay for. If a nonsubscriber "winks" at a subscriber,
and if the subscriber emails them back, the nonsubscriber has the option to
subscribe if they want to communicate. Personally, I haven't had any winks
from women who haven't subscribed, or perhaps they subscribed after I
returned their interest. You can subscribe for one, three, six, or twelve
months; obviously the per-month cost is cheaper for the longer-term
subscriptions. eharmony quite clearly states the differences between
nonsubscriber members and subscriber members on the very first page of the
How It Works topic.
Some reviewers gripe about people lying in their profiles, but assuming
that happens (I haven't experienced it), it would apply to all
online
dating
services, not just eharmony, and none of them could control
it. All a service can do is keep inappropriate language and photos out.
Some reviewers gripe about their profile changing all by itself, but I've
never experienced a problem with my profile. There are limits to the number
of characters each section of the profile can contain, and characters will
disappear if you exceed that limit, so maybe that happened to them, but
you'll see that immediately when you click submit if you proofread it after
submission. The solution is to compose your text in a word processor so that
it's saved, and rework the text until you're within the character limit;
then copy and paste into eharmony. Then no problems.
All in all, I think eharmony is great. And I'm not employed by or otherwise
affiliated with them. I'm just a normal subscriber who has used their
service extensively over a number of years, and I'm happy with it.
06/28/2007
What can I say? I suppose it's as bad as any other online dating site... My
personal experience (as a male) is that you'll get 1 reply out of 10 emails.
Some of this may be because non subscribers can't respond, others because
people are just rude (or possibly they've gotten so many hits it's
impossible for them to respond).
What you will learn is something about human nature when someone can hide
under a cloak of anonymity but that applies to all
online
dating
sites.
All the other comments about non subscribers vs. subscribers are generally
valid. The site is set up to entice you into joining. At the very least,
IMO, you should be able (as a subscriber) to see who is subscribing or not,
but I'm sure this would lower eharmony's profit (by derailing the enticement
process).
05/31/2007
I'm a one month member, and uncertain as to how to QA eharmony. Skeptism always
wise. The lack of either member reponses or repliess is disconcerting. With
more time on the market, opportunities for illicit/unethical business
practices do increase. It is greedy, poor long-term business to sell
additional services which need to be paackaged-included; i.e., email staus
notice, etc. eharmony has, in addition, already solicited me with new/improved
chemistry.com. This is crooked. Improve the original service, please.
If completely illegitimate, how to explain:
1) date occurrence,
2)different essays
3) all the photos. Would someone actually stage all this? Perhaps?
Members do Not respond; since, we live in an ADD, immediate grad,
me/narcissistic tech world. You asked for the online experience, there you
have it.
At the same time WE all suffer from gross, unrealistic, unhealthy
expectations, and perfections.
Others, furthurmore, commit strategic errors; i.e. the male searching for
someone half his age, those who lie, and women who can not understand or
even be hostile-resentful that youth interest is a familty consideration.
I'm 43, certainly, explanation was given when asked why my interest from
30-35. I thought it was obvious.
The other possible strategic mistake, lack of photos.
Also, 34+, 34-36 are my viewers or interested pool. lower 30's no to low
interest. Youngest responderwas 33, average mean 36, the market demagraphic
stats do not lie, gentlemen of all people, we know the numbers game. and
everyone stop chasing waterfalls.
I low rated them for hitting me with chemistry dor con into the 2nd week.
Gentleman, skeptism is wise, howver
05/14/2007
Obviously, SilverFox and Jrj1430 are member of eharmony.com, writing from one
of their company desk. They copy-paste their messages a few times in this
list, just to raise the stars-rate. eharmony is all but reliable
05/09/2007
The men on the site are typically shallow, play games, etc. Pictures posted
are often not current and misleading. Older men are looking for much younger
women which I find offensive.
Some men respond who you would think never read your profile, because you
have absolutely nothing in common. Obviously physical looks is top on their
list and not much else matters. One option for non smokers is, "Smoking no
way" and smokers respond anyway. It definitely attracts men who were
unsuccessful in
finding
women in a conventional manner, and this was their last
ditch effort. To confirm that point, some profiles indicate a sense of
desperation, while others are so in love with themselves, they are down
right arrogant. I love the ones that say, "I am an attractive..."Does one
really have an objective opinion on their physical appearance? Sorry men, if
you think you are attractive, you probably waste way too much time looking
at yourself in the mirror, and not on the things that matter in life.
03/09/2007
It is a reputable site...wish you could im and browse without everyone
seeing you are online.
03/04/2007
eharmony.com is a total rip off. Why you ask? For starters their free
membership is only there to deceive people into paying. It makes it appear
as if there are millions of people you can interact with when the truth is
that you can't. Paying members can send mail but if they are interested in a
non-paying member they cannot contact them because you have to pay to read
mail as well as send it. Those people are only allowed to post profiles for
one reason. It disillusions potential paying subscribers into believing
there are tons of attractive singles on their site that they can connect
when, in reality, there are only a few.
I never knew this for the longest time as a paying member and was always
confused as to why someone would wink at me and when I wrote them I'd never
receive a response. It's because they couldn't respond. So, if 90% of the
members are non paying subscribers then the amount of people you can
actually contact from their entire membership is very small. The only reason
I ever found this out was because I accidentally forgot to update my account
and my automatic payments were stopped. I then tried to read an email I
received afterwards and found out that I couldn't. Once I found that out I
decided I'd never again pay to be a member of their site. Why would it even
be worth it?
The fact that paying members cannot contact non subscribers is something
they like to keep a secret. I know this because I attempted to post this
information on my profile so other subscribers that probably aren't aware
could be informed and they wouldn't allow it. Why? They don't want that ugly
bit of truth getting out because their days of robbing folks would be over.
What they also like to keep a secret is which members you actually can
contact and expect a response from. You have no idea whether the person
you're interested in is a paying subscriber or not so what happens is you
spend 20 minutes of your valuable time typing an introduction to someone who
most likely can't even read or respond to your mail. The reason they hide it
is because then you'd be able to see with your own eyes just how few people
you could actually contact so they say screw you. They don't care if you're
wasting your time as long as they get their money.
Bottom line: eharmony.com is a dirty company that deliberately deceives it's
paying members for profit.
01/25/2007
I tried eharmony.com for 30 days... just to see what I got. I got a lot of
women who tried to scam me for money (always cuties with bodies from foreign
countries), one date and a lot of "extras" advertised by eharmony.com, not
mention a parting gift of being robbed by eharmony.com for an extra month. As
for the dating, I did much better than that on my own! Since, this was the
case, I decided to cancel my subscription. I did so 3 days before it was to
end so as NOT to be billed again for the next month. I went through their
cancellation processes to a window that said how many days I had left on my
current subscription and asked if you wanted to delete your profile. I
chose, like a fool, to leave my profile. A week later I found another
monthly deduction on my account. I tried to contact them but could not. So,
I went through the process again, and got the same screen, this time, i
deleted my profile... with 29 days left on their service. These guys are
straight up crooks and their good at it. Anyone who tries their service take
it from me. Try something else, because its not worth it and they practice
the same visual web trickery that email scammers play on you when they
pretend to be a financial institution, claim a problem with your account,
and give you a link to put your password and id into in order to steal your
information. Is no different... and Dr. Phil, since he's their face, must be
down with the whole thing. Two crooked peas in a pod.
12/03/2006
eharmony.com is 100% cons and 0% pros.
The correct name is eharmony.con.
11/19/2006
I would like to subtract stars! I'm sure their empoloyees are the ones
giving them a good rating.
I was a paid member and discovered they had my profile reading that I was
looking for married men, heavy drinkers and smokers, everything was the
opposite of what I had put. I was totally embarrassed and it took four
emails before they replied but still did nothing about my problem.
10/22/2006
Too secular for me but nice if you want to meet people with common
interests. Girls write back one out ten usually.
05/21/2006
Doesn't work too well. I've been on more than a year and have yet to meet
one woman! Not only that, you get the constant scams from Russia.
03/28/2006
If you meet people you don't like on a
dating
site, that's not the site's fault, it's just life, get
over it. However when the website is disorganized and full or errors and
strange "events" then it's the website's fault. Now my problem with eharmony is
that it is very disorganized and things happen without explanation or
warning. I pay so I can avoid this type of non-sense. You must keep checking
your profile to make sure that it is indeed up and that it still says what
you intended to say especially the multiple choice parts - I've logged on
and found I had "changed" my profile to choices that I wouldn't even think
of, and my profile was constantly "waiting for approval" due to changes even
when I hadn't logged on for days. I would have appreciated at least an email
warning me that my profile had changed so I could check it and see what the
ghost did. Any programmer could write this in. A week after I joined, they
tell me that my username has too many numbers in it and I should change it
and let everyone who's contacted me know. Why wasn't I warned of this when I
first created the username I mean any one can write a program that counts!
This doesn't need human intervention. Well apparently they are not using
real programmers - they just have someone sitting in the back yard throwing
toads into a big black pot and hoping something comes out.
03/17/2006
Go to a bar dudes. I tried this garbage once and when a chick sends you a
message, you have to freaking pay to see it! Shame on the creators of
eharmony.com, shame!
02/13/2006
These people play any tricks and traps to get your money. As long as you pay
and pay more you'll get a reasonable web site, but they are the internet
equivalent of oil companies.
01/15/2006
I agree with "KinkyPinky" from the comment on 10/25/05. I, too, almost fell
for the "3 day free trial". Then I noticed that it stated after the 3rd day
they would bill me for the $77.94 fee for 6 months. What if I only wanted
the service for 1 month? Why are you not given a choice of which service you
want? Nooooo, they want to hit you for the most they can get. I sent them 2
emails, one asking why they don't at least offer free emailing like
Webdate.com, and the other about the fee charge. They sent me no response to
the email question, but did tell me I could call them for an explanation
about the free trial. If their intention is to truly help individuals find a
eharmony, they should be as helpful as possible. So for all of you out there,
if you want to try a FREE, yes free sight, try Webdate.com. You can email
people all day long and take it from there. Good luck to all of you. ** For
you tht would like to reach me from the sight try me on Webdate, username
"ande4" **
12/18/2005
Their name should probably be changed to "watch the con", not "eharmony dot
com". Now eharmony is saying that they've gotten the lawsuit employee to sign
an avidavit that she was never and employee. Yeah right. Isn't that too
easy. If anybody brings up an allegation against a giant like eharmony that
seriously damages its reputation, do you really believe that all eharmony would
do would be to get the person to sign an avidavit? No way, it'd be more like
suing the pants off that woman. The case of her signing an avidavit just
means she's been bribed with a few millions to keep her quiet. Scams will
never end. Support the free sites: oasisoflove.com and end the greed.
12/18/2005
Their name should probably be changed to "watch the con", not "eharmony dot
com". Now eharmony is saying that they've gotten the lawsuit employee to sign
an avidavit that she was never and employee. Yeah right. Isn't that too
easy. If anybody brings up an allegation against a giant like eharmony that
seriously damages its reputation, do you really believe that all eharmony would
do would be to get the person to sign an avidavit? No way, it'd be more like
suing the pants off that woman. The case of her signing an avidavit just
means she's been bribed with a few millions to keep her quiet. Scams will
never end. Support the free sites: oasisoflove.com and end the greed.
11/21/2005
By far the best online dating site out there. It has every tool you could
possibly need to; look for, contact, and avoid anyone out there.
11/12/2005
Attention women in Tucson AZ. A man who is on eharmony.com is a terrible fake.
He is a liar and mentally unstable. When I saw his profile back on there, I
was shocked. His username on eharmony is adventurer99. He has gentital herpes.
He proposed to a friend of mine then backed out - after she had spent every
last dime on their life together. He is living in the house that they bought
together and his profile is an absolute farce. I have no reason to say these
things other than to warn unknowing trusting women out there who might give
him a chance.
11/05/2005
eharmony is a waste of money. I know some of the people who have their profiles
and pictures posted on eharmony and they are not like they describe themselves
online. One of the people on there I dated for a short time. This person was
not right side up, if you know what I mean. It's understandable and
commendable that such a service is available, but the chances for abuse and
deception are too high. Once in a while eople send me a wink and have no
picture on their profile. What are they hiding? Or hiding from? Their
spouse? The police? I am interested in those who are moving to my town and
list themselves before they even get here. You cannot add paragraphs to your
profile. If you can, how to do so is a mystery since eharmony does not indicate
how to add them. You may type in paragraph from, but when published, the
breaks dissapear. One person sent me an e-mail with a rude blurb about a
picture I had on my profile. The response I sent was met with a frightening
e-mail. This person was reported to eharmony and they were "reprimanded." The
person reported, suggested I committ suicide, and had been watching me...
which I felt was rude and homicidal sounding. I won't re-new. There are
enough freaks and sex addicts on the streets. I am not going to pay to
actually interract with them online.
10/25/2005
I have used eharmony.com on and off for a couple of years to meet new people
between relationships. As any type of dating, I think you get out of it what
you put in. If you meet every single guy that sends you a wink, you'll
probably meet many who are imcompatible and a few who are just bad for a
variety of reasons. I have met many nice men and even had a couple of
boyfriends out of it. You just have to keep your psycho radar up and pay
attention to the red flags. The site seems to work well. I agree they did
have some email glitches in the past, but it seems to have been worked out.
10/02/2005
I am not sure of what to make of eharmony.com as yet because I am not yet a
subscriber. I came across a ''3 DAY FREE TRIAL'' promotion so I thought that
i'd try this out before I become a subscriber. I think I have found my
perfect eharmony on eharmony.com but because I am not yet a subscriber I cannot
e-mail this person back, but when I saw under the 'Contact this member for
FREE' I thought GREAT! So I clicked on the 'I agree' button and it
automatically sent me to the Subscribers page. Now, correct me if I am wrong
but doesn't the word ''FREE'' mean that you do not have to part with your
money? It seems to me that eharmony.com has a different interpretation of the
word ''FREE'' because you cannot get this so called ''3 DAY FREE TRIAL''
unless you subscribe and submit your
credit
card
details! I have contacted eharmony.com over what seems to me
like FALSE ADVERTISING and I have not yet received a reply from them. I
would be interested to know if anyone has managed to get hold of this ''3
DAY FREE TRIAL'' WITHOUT having to submit payment details because I have
tried at least three times without success. Also, I checked the Terms and
Conditions section of this so called free trial and under the eligibility
section it is basically saying that if you are 18 or over and are not yet a
subscriber then you are eligible for this ''FREE TRIAL'' when I clicked on
the 'I agree' button once again, surprise surprise! it says that I am not
eligible for this promotion? and then it says at the bottom of that ''But
don't let that stop you SUBSCRIBE here'' I believe that there is no ''3 DAY
FREE TRIAL'' that eharmony.com says there is. I do believe FALSE ADVERTISING is
an offence and should be reported.
09/07/2005
First off I was contacted by a member who had found a profile from 2 years
ago. It had my old email address which was closed, and how he contacted me I
will never know. I signed on for a FREE 3 day subscription in order to write
back to him, BUT had to use my credit card. I emailed and cancelled the free
trial after 2 days and was assured it had been. When I got my credit card
bill a month later, they had charged me for 3 months. I have emails from
them stating I did not have an account, but I was billed. Secondly, the
email address they have for me is my old, closed email. I can't change it
and have emailed them several times about adding my current email address, I
get no response. I get no emails, winks, or anything else, as I suspect
everything is going to the old email address and old account which has been
inactive for 2 years. I am furious and warn everyone to stay away from them.
08/17/2005
eharmony.com is after your money, after joining for free you will get an email
one day from a fake person whom you can only contact by forking over money.
If you try to peek at fake person's profile, you will find that they cannot
be found. This fake person will seem perfect for you, or at least
interesting, but remember they have made him/her up, and they will come with
a name right out of a Harlequin Romance book, but you cannot see their
profile, and when you go to email them back, eharmony.com will even tell you
they are online now, which is strange since they cannot find the profile,
(HOW CAN THEY TELL so-and-so@talkeharmony.com iIS ONLINE WHEN THEY CANNOT FIND
THEM? HMMMM) They should be ashamed of themselves.
08/14/2005
The previous reviewer, eharmonymyazz, seems to think this is her personal forum
to let every one know about her mistakes. She was supposed to rate eharmony.com
but instead went on about her poor choices in a relationship and how it's
some how eharmonyes responsibility to get her some kind of revenge. I'm sure
most other women will not be fooled by this guy's act, especially not for
three years!! I find it amusing that this gal chose to stay with this guy
knowing the things she did about him, while a guy like me, who has no
unusual sexual desires, makes a good living, lives a clean life with no
baggage and is reasonably good looking, remains single for months at a time.
I guess it's true that nice guys finish last!
07/30/2005
eharmony.com has a sociopath on its list. I know. I dated him for 3 yrs. Only 2
mos post dumping me for the 3rd and final time, he signed onto eharmony.com
looking for his next victim to scam This lil bastard is 38, has always lived
at home with his mommy upstairs in a filthy pig pen of a room and has never
married or had children. His mother ensures the failure of all of his
relationships by being hostile and rude to his ladies. She truly is psycho
mom. She doesnt want her baby to leave her like her hubby did. This pig has
some sappy lines on his profile about how he and a woman may be eachothers
DREAM date. He is dreaming because he doesnt reveal the truth. The truth is
he is epileptic and doesnt always take his meds so his prospective date may
end up like I did...having to leave work to rush to the ER to bail his lame
ass out. Something he could have controlled by taking his meds. Trouble
started when I was seperated from my husband and met this PRINCE charming.
He would lead me to believe I deserved better and he was the one to give it
to me. LMAO. He was fired from his job at HD as cart boy. How can you screw
that one up? I gave him employment at my shop and yet his mother felt I was
no good because I didnt have the means to provide him with
health
insurance. So here he is online...avoiding talking about
his true self: how he lies, cheats and lies some more. I find out this pig
was arrested for cocaine trafficking when employed at Kimberly Clark. He
gave cocaine to an undercover female officer claiming he only did it to get
down her pants. Now there's a decent man! He and a bunch of others had been
arrested as well - but the criminal got off because the GA police
accidentally arrested him TWICE for the same crime. He walked. Had they NOT
screwed up so badly, he would probably still be in jail. Thats the dream
date every girls hopes for right? What about the lil restraining order his
ex GF placed on him though he swears it was because his FATHER threatened
her in court? Oh, didnt I mention COURT? He owned a TKD studio and lost it
in no time flat. THe GF was angry because he cheated on her and kicked him
out...after he gave her half of the business. She said NO WAY and he lost in
court. She was awarded the entire school. Yeah, Im sure its all her fault.
Funny what LIARS the jury folk can be. He ends up teaching boxing at a
friends gym and beds down an 18 yr old student when he was in his mid 30's.
Sure, it was ok of him to lie to her about his age. She was angry when she
found out from what she told me. But hey...whats a little age difference! I
guess age matters when you consider this man ended up telling me he wanted
to crossdress and have me penetrate him with a sex toy. His theory of a
mouth is a mouth smacked of on the fence gaydom. When he left me again for
the now 21 yr old boxing student, I found out through some mutual friends of
hers that he made her dress him up and mess with his hiney. Here's the
sickpart: I asked him why he said he never did that with anyone b4 when he
had...he said he was embarrASSED. Apprently NOT TOO MUCH THOUGH! After the
drama of his leaving for the umpteenth time and me saying NO MORE, he
decides to inform me he is gay. Then later it was bisexual. Then its back to
straight. Never mind the two male sexual encounters this pig had with a
priest when he was 16, and another with a male family friend of his own age.
SURE YOU HATE THE MALE BODY HONEY! So here is this pig of a so called MAN
who doesnt know his sexual orientation and doesnt reveal what a psycho
pervert he is (yes, this includes hitting during sex and choking)on
eharmony.com I feel extremely frightened for the women who think he is a gem
because though his financial circumstances suck along with living with
MOTHER, they will be hurt. I wrote to eharmony.com to let them know this pig
impregnanted me and left me to rot. His account was active within the
wk...and I was pregnant by this scuz only a few mos ago. They wont do a
damned thing about it. No woman will know what hit her. He is a charmer who
is capable of lying through his teeth to get his needs met. Money, attention
and sexual perversions are his enticement. In fact, he told me, If I were
using you, you wouldnt know what hit you. Nice huh? eharmony.com needs to pay
attn to the pigs on their site.
07/30/2005
eharmony.com has a sociopath on its list. I know. I dated him for 3 yrs. Only 2
mos post dumping me for the 3rd and final time, he signed onto eharmony.com
looking for his next victim to scam This lil bastard is 38, has always lived
at home with his mommy upstairs in a filthy pig pen of a room and has never
married or had children. His mother ensures the failure of all of his
relationships by being hostile and rude to his ladies. She truly is psycho
mom. She doesnt want her baby to leave her like her hubby did. This pig has
some sappy lines on his profile about how he and a woman may be eachothers
DREAM date. He is dreaming because he doesnt reveal the truth. The truth is
he is epileptic and doesnt always take his meds so his prospective date may
end up like I did...having to leave work to rush to the ER to bail his lame
ass out. Something he could have controlled by taking his meds. Trouble
started when I was seperated from my husband and met this PRINCE charming.
He would lead me to believe I deserved better and he was the one to give it
to me. LMAO. He was fired from his job at HD as cart boy. How can you screw
that one up? I gave him employment at my shop and yet his mother felt I was
no good because I didnt have the means to provide him with health insurance.
So here he is online...avoiding talking about his true self: how he lies,
cheats and lies some more. I find out this pig was arrested for cocaine
trafficking when employed at Kimberly Clark. He gave cocaine to an
undercover female officer claiming he only did it to get down her pants. Now
there's a decent man! He and a bunch of others had been arrested as well -
but the criminal got off because the GA police accidentally arrested him
TWICE for the same crime. He walked. Had they NOT screwed up so badly, he
would probably still be in jail. Thats the dream date every girls hopes for
right? What about the lil restraining order his ex GF placed on him though
he swears it was because his FATHER threatened her in court? Oh, didnt I
mention COURT? He owned a TKD studio and lost it in no time flat. THe GF was
angry because he cheated on her and kicked him out...after he gave her half
of the business. She said NO WAY and he lost in court. She was awarded the
entire school. Yeah, Im sure its all her fault. Funny what LIARS the jury
folk can be. He ends up teaching boxing at a friends gym and beds down an 18
yr old student when he was in his mid 30's. Sure, it was ok of him to lie to
her about his age. She was angry when she found out from what she told me.
But hey...whats a little age difference! I guess age matters when you
consider this man ended up telling me he wanted to crossdress and have me
penetrate him with a sex toy. His theory of a mouth is a mouth smacked of on
the fence gaydom. When he left me again for the now 21 yr old boxing
student, I found out through some mutual friends of hers that he made her
dress him up and mess with his hiney. Here's the sickpart: I asked him why
he said he never did that with anyone b4 when he had...he said he was
embarrASSED. Apprently NOT TOO MUCH THOUGH! After the drama of his leaving
for the umpteenth time and me saying NO MORE, he decides to inform me he is
gay. Then later it was bisexual. Then its back to straight. Never mind the
two male sexual encounters this pig had with a priest when he was 16, and
another with a male family friend of his own age. SURE YOU HATE THE MALE
BODY HONEY! So here is this pig of a so called MAN who doesnt know his
sexual orientation and doesnt reveal what a psycho pervert he is (yes, this
includes hitting during sex and choking)on eharmony.com I feel extremely
frightened for the women who think he is a gem because though his financial
circumstances suck along with living with MOTHER, they will be hurt. I wrote
to eharmony.com to let them know this pig impregnanted me and left me to rot.
His account was active within the wk...and I was pregnant by this scuz only
a few mos ago. They wont do a damned thing about it. No woman will know what
hit her. He is a charmer who is capable of lying through his teeth to get
his needs met. Money, attention and sexual perversions are his enticement.
In fact, he told me, If I were using you, you wouldnt know what hit you.
Nice huh? eharmony.com needs to pay attn to the pigs on their site.
07/08/2005
Oh what a tangled web we weave....I can't believe eharmony just sent me my top
eharmonyes and number one was this mean sob that I actually met thru work.
Could they be more wrong???? Of course, he is a big, fat lair - and I mean
that literally. If above average body type is looking like you are 12 months
pregnant with quads, then maybe he is. If moderate political views are
listening to Rush type programs and going onto the Grudge report for your
news, all the while stating that he voted for Nadar - dumb but not evil -
well, then he's sitting right on that fence. And if being a cigar aficionado
means smoking a pack or more a day (around someone who has asthma) and
smoking something else for fun, well slap my ass!)
05/16/2005
eharmony.com is getting too expensive, I paid for more than two years when it
was $100/yr, and even though I didn't find Ms Right I definitely got my
money's worth, I met lots of nice ladies, many of whom I'm still friends
with. I spent far more on eHarmony and got virtually nothing in return, the
only site which is even a better value than eharmony.com is HotorNot.com
because it's *so* fun and only charges $7/month, and you only pay when
someone that you're interested in also wants to email you. So, after paying
many, many sites I recommend eharmony.com and HotorNot.com and warn everyone to
steer WAY clear of eHarmony.com.
01/31/2005
I was wondering if anyone else had the same experience I did. I had my
profile marked as hidden on eharmony.com for sometime and, in fact, it was
hidden. However, I just became aware that it somehow became visible again
without my consent. Has this happened to anyone else?
11/27/2004
I've been on eharmony several times over the last few years and have met mostly
nice men. However, there's that fringe. Years ago a list of wierdos with
stories floated around on eharmonymaker. It was good advice to help you benefit
from other's bad experiences. Does anyone know if such a thing on
eharmony.com??
09/13/2004
I have tried a number of dating sites over the years and I have had the best
luck on eharmony.com. The site's relative superiority can be mostly attributed
to its volume and stability. I am a middle aged man and I have also found
that the male to female ratio is a little better on this site than some
others. Of course, I haven't always developed something with the women I've
met from this site but I've found most of them to be women of reasonable
quality. Of course, the frustrations with on-line dating (particularly from
the male point of view) are experienced as much here as anywhere. But, at
least the selection of women is larger, more active, and of better than
average quality. There seem to be more photos here than on other sites, too.
Perhaps many women on multiple sites regard this one as their main site and
make a little more effort here.
08/26/2004
The guys are there just to get laid! Beware, ladies. It's either total dorks
or horny losers.
08/26/2004
If people were really looking for the right person to share and be happy
with fine but all it is on eharmony.com is a person looking for sex...Hell you
don't need a computer for that...Web site is not worth a dam...they should
call it Condum.com...
06/10/2004
Poor customer service - Cut my membership off when al I wanted was to end my
subsciption. Felt like my profile was in a dark corner - hard to use and
understand-
05/18/2004
It is with interest that I read in this review some rather disparaging
comments about those of us who use on-line dating/eharmonying services. The
implication is that we are social misfits, who, owing to some sort of
emotional pathology, go on-line to search for something apporoximating a
real relationship. I suspect that these comments are the product of very
young minds. When one is 25, it is quite easy to find someone to have a
relationship with. Most of the 20-something crowd is single and looking. The
number of available potential partners drops rapidly in the 30s and, by the
time you are in your 40s, there are even fewer. Not only that, by the time
you are in your late 30s or 40s, you are so busy with career and living a
real life, that it is very difficult to connect with potential partners.
Consider that most young people meet their potential parters in such venues
as school, parties and bars/clubs. Well, those of us who are older don't go
to school, and if we did, we are much older than most of the people in the
classroom. At parties, most of the revelleres are married. And we learned
long ago that you won't find a quality person in a bar or club, since party
animals might provide a night or two of carnal bliss, they don't make good
mates. Someone suggested churches, which is fine if you are religious and
seeking a like-minded mate, but, again, when you are older, most people
church-goers in your age range are married. How about the office? That used
to be an option, but nowaddays, it's too risky, since you might just find
yourself slapped with a sexual harasseement complaint. And, again, if you
are older, you are probably in management, so co-workers are out of the
question. So some of us have decided to seek potential partners theough
on-line services. We don't have the time to be running the streets looking
for a mate. The problem is that the younger people have turned the on-line
services into cyber meat markets, behaving on-line the same way they do in
the bars and clubs. For others, it's just a game; they like screwing around
with people's emotions, leading them on when they have no intention of
having a relationship. Hence, many on-liners, especially women, quickly
become jaded about the process. eharmony.com is particularly bad about this. A
woman friend of mind says about eharmony.com: The guys are there to get laid
and the girls are there to find someone to pick up the dinner tab. My
experince with eharmony is pretty much in keeping with her observation.
However, I have meet a couple of nice women on eharmony. It, like the other
on-line services, has it's drawbacks, but it sure beats hitting on women in
bars.
05/17/2004
Beware of potential problems with eharmony.com. Apparently the people who
censor personals are really not too bright. They seem not to be able to look
words up in the dictionary so words such as monosyllabic and others are
deleted from ads becuae they are vulgar (when they are not). I had to laugh
about this and can only attribute the deletion of such words as being done
by a monosyllabic person. Holes will appear in your personal that make your
personal unintelligible. Also zip codes in the eharmony.com are incorrect and
your ad will appear as to be from another area sometimes a couple hundred
miles away. To correct the problem means the whole ad goes back through
censors and more gets deleted. There seems to be a lot of gender bias by
censors. Males can use smutty language within their ads, but a female can
never use such language. Funnyassed girl was deleted because the customer
service rep I talked to said this means I offer anal sex. Hmmmmm, wonder
where that persons head was! A lot of emails never reach their destination
because of glitches in the eharmony.com system (after all, they do have a
connection with AOL and this might be where their bad customer service stems
from. (That's AOL, the service that a lot of what comes into your mailbox is
AOL sanctioned pornographic material since they sell your address to porn
advertisers.) The problems attributed to using Macs with eharmony.com also stem
to using a pc. Just beware where you want to put your money. eHarmony seems
to be a better site, has little problems, and you can include your own
personal email in the body of a message when you feel ready (eharmony.com does
not allow you to do this AND they censor and delete personal emails they
don't like between people).
04/28/2004
Of the several sites I've tried, eharmony.com seems best. The large client base
is its main virtue -- though this also means that it is pretty unselective.
(E.g., a high proportion of women haven't finished college.) Even so,
filtering compensates for this. Their experiment with facial attractiveness
technology is quite interesting, though (at this point) scarcely useful.
Formerly, they had an easy means to screen those eharmonying one's desired
attributes, to find only those who had recently joined, thus eliminating the
need to go through vast quantities of folks you'd considered already. Now
they have no such means. That's my main complaing. Otherwise, the features
eharmony or beat other services's. For my purposes, the only rival is
Jdate.com.
03/29/2004
This site is good in that it has a very large membership base. But I hate
the fact that they review your profile before it is published online, and
review any changes you make. They also crop your photo to their liking,
which may not be to your liking. I had a tie-dye shirt on, which they
completely cropped. They also chopped off the top of my head for some
reason. What a bunch of BS - it's MY photo, and I should choose however I
want to appear, not someone else. The same goes for my essay.
03/27/2004
I've met as many (or more) freaks, psycho's and weirdo's in clubs/at
parties/through friends than I ever have online. I met my current
girlfriend/future wife online. I knew more about her in the time it took to
read her profile than I knew about some of my legit girlfriends after six
months. (That said, NEVER trust a Glamour Shot. Glamour Shots are like a
boozy night in a dark bar, they make bad things look better.)
11/18/2003
I used eharmony.com back in 1999, I met my best internet friend since then, and
my actual partner: my boyfriend with whom I have been living together since
2001. That place rocks or I am just way too lucky! I loved it!! I still do.
I am very thankful!
11/15/2003
My husband and I met on eharmony.com. I think its a great site. Opens the door
to meeting new people.
09/25/2003
I'm surprised how hostile a lot of people are to the idea of meeting people
on-line, as though it were impossible to meet "quality" people there. You're
on a computer right now, aren't you? Does that make you, at this moment, of
lesser quality? I'm in favor of people meeting people in any way that human
ingenuity can devise.
09/18/2003
Macthmaking on the web really screws up the theory of natural selection!
Just don't name your kids Yoda, or Spock...PLEASE!
08/10/2003
I think this site is great! For all you skeptics out there, what is the
difference of meeting someone online as apposed to going to a bar, getting
drunk and having a one night stand w/ someone that you don't even have a
chance to get to know? My brother met his wife on one of these online dating
sites. They met in person after 3 months of talking on line, married 6
months after that and they have been married for almost 5 years now. They
are so happy I want to throw up everytime I get around them! If you think
that it is not the right way to meet someone, thats your problem. If you
think that you can't get to know someone online by talking to them via phone
or emails, then your wrong. Open your minds, guys! Its 2003!
06/21/2003
i feel very sorry for all those people who actually use these kinds of
websites
11/03/2000
I have researched a couple of these services due to my alarming inability to
meet interesting women through my everyday life. eharmony.com appears to be far
and away the best - simply because of the volume. Unlike many other dating
services, eharmony.com charges you a small fee to use their service - primarily
because they can because of the critical mass that they have been able to
achieve. Obviously, if you are going to use a dating service, it's all about
options. eharmony.com seems to have thousands of entries for major cities, and
the service is pretty easy to use (though I have had a couple of glitches
with the Web site). Also, the people who are listed on eharmony.com don't seem
all that scary - many do not seem to be heinous, and there seem to be a fair
number of professional types.
08/13/2000
A great website to meet friends or lovers. I met my current partner there,
even though I never would consider myself a personal ads type person. You
really get a good feel for what the other person is like. They ask good
questions to base eharmonyes on. |
